opinions...

hello!
You can have your own opinions on things and people shouldn't judge you. Even if their view is different, they shouldn't go too far to making you change yours. It is completely natural to have debates, but when i am social media, I see people having full-blown arguments on some famous persons picture or tweet. maybe someone has said "i think you are beautiful" but then someone else replies "she's not so don't say that." my first trouble with that is, if you don't like the person, why do you follow them? And my second thought is that it is the first person's OPINION.

Personally I don't like Justin Bieber, or his music, so I don't follow him on social media and i don't listen to his music (if i can help it)  but I voice my opinion to my friends, not random people on instagram or twitter. I like rugby and Shawn Mendes and some of my friends don't like those things so we all have different preferences. mine just isn't Justin Bieber. I joke around if a friend likes Justin Bieber by saying we can't be friends anymore, but they know that i'm joking and don't get offended. they have their likes and i have mine and our preferences make us different and that's why we are close.

Okay i have a question... should i keep just doing post like this^ or should i do reviews or beauty posts??????

qotd: do you like something you friends don't?
aotb: yes, rugby especially welsh rugby!!
 thanks for reading
Ebonydaylightt x x x x

reading

Hello!

My favourite ever quote is from Games of Thrones and is said by Jojen Reed, who just happens to be played by one of my favourite actor Thomas Brodie Sangster. It is: " A reader lives a thousand lives before he dies, the man who never reads lives only one." I love this quote, because, to me it is soo true. i read a lot and i mean A LOT! For christmas i got 10 books and at the moment i've read 2 1/2 of them! I am a fast reader because when i like a book, I can't put it down. Reading is a big part of my day-to-day life. it saddens me that people say they don't like reading for leisure because it is SO useful in life.  The amount of people who have said "i don't like reading because it's boring" means that they haven't tried properly yet. I also see that people who read are more commonly part of fandoms, the kind of people who find out Everything about the book, a bit like me :/
i am part of many fandoms including The Maze Runner and Harry Potter. I love being part of fandoms because you are surrounded by people who love the same thing as you and you can talk about it and exchange facts and just learn more about it.
qotb(question of the blog): Do you like reading? if so what is your favourite book?
If you would like to; leave an answer in the comment?!?


thanks for reading!
Ebonydaylightt x x x x

character lovin'

Hello!
we all have our favourite fictional characters, i am no exception. My favourite character is Violet from The Jewel by Amy Ewing; it is such an amazing book and Violet is such a strong girl, who was taken from her family at age 11, then is taken to be  surrogate in the capital, miles away from her family. She also falls in love and the story between Violet and Ash is incredible, one day i hope to have love like theirs. I want to be strong, and brave like Violet.

Another character that I love is Hermione Granger from Harry Potter, cliche but i honestly don't care. Who doesn't love Harry Potter??  She is amazingly smart and has some of the best lines in the books. I can really relate to her in some of the books and that's what draws me to her. I love that she doesn't let her love take over her life like some other characters and she gets on with life.

At the end of each post, I am going to ask a question, and if you want to answer it, please do in the comments. Today's question is: Who is your favourite fictional character and why?

I probably won't post again until after christmas, but feel free to give any suggestions one what you want me to blog about!

Merry Christmas and Lots Of Love,
Ebonydaylightt x x x x

Almost Christmas!

Hello!
At the moment i am really excited because of the best time in the year.... CHRISTMAS!!! who doesn't love it? i mean the food, and presents and music and tv and family getting together. It's my favourite day of the year and this year is no exception.

do you like christmas? do you celebrate it? i find it so interesting that only a few years ago hardly anywhere was open on christmas day because almost everybody celebrated it, but each year, more and more places seemed to be open. Maybe it's because i was and still am growing up, but it's funny how our perception of the world changes, we find out that it isn't all it seems, with wars,terrorists, and illness around the world. We in the UK and other MEDCs are lucky because almost everybody has somewhere warm on christmas day, we are all sat round tables eating and drinking and laughing. some children don't get this so from an early age they have a bad perception of the world.

The one thing I ask this christmas, is that you hope these people who do not have the same as you, have a good christmas.

thanks for reading,
Ebonydaylightt x x x x

Some of us think holding on makes us strong; but sometimes it is letting go. Hermann Hesse
hi guys!
I'm so sorry that i haven't posted in a while, there are two reasons for this, one is that i've had school things going on and the other is that i didn't know what to write after the last post. But I found this quote and thought i could write about it.

Question: who thinks this is an inspirational quote?? personally I think it is because we all hold onto things for too long and we need to all let go of those things. I'm probably one of the worst for this. i hold grudges for too long and then i turn people against me. I know personally that girls are a lot worse but boys can be the same.

see ya all on Wednesday!
Ebonydaylightt x x x x

The change

I always think that I'm different, that people don't like me and I'm horrible. I feel like people just pretend to like me. I know i'm probably just being stupid, but I am very sensitive, I get upset more easily than other people. I cry more and people think I'm a crybaby. Society is a hypocrite, they  tell you to be independant, but the perfect person is tall, athletic, beautiful/handsome, smart, and Rich. They tell you that you are perfect even if you're not. They tell you not to show feeling but sometimes it's really hard, especially if it's about someone you love. They tell you to feel happy with what you look like but that's ridiculous, because we see social media and magazines with pictures of people like Kendall Jenner, Taylor Swift or Beyoncé. They are all stunning, smart and rich. They all have something to feel happy about. People tell you about depression and how to overcome it, but not how you fall into it. I don't have depression but people suffer from it everyday. People just say "you'll get better." But at that point in time you don't know if you will.

My suggestion is if anybody you know is struggling with life, just make them feel like its worth it. Just text them saying "are you okay?" If they say no, don't say "you'll get better" give them advice and tell them that it will get better but it takes time, but that time is worth it in the end when you get out of the depression. I want to make a change in this world. I don't want people to suffer, with anything. Especially mental health issues, I want to let people know that they are not alone, even in their darkest hours, there will be someone there to talk. 

Ebonydaylightt x x x x

The Paris Attacks 2015.

Today I am going to ask everybody to think of Paris. On the 13th November 2015 at around 9pm, there were a number of terrorist attacks around Paris. So far there have been at least 120  deaths and 200 injuries. The worst attack was at the Bataclan, a French concert hall. There, 80 people were killed before the police raided the venue. 2 of the terrorists killed themselves and 1 was caught in the gunfire. There was a friendly football game at stade de France between France and Germany. There were 2 audible explosions there. We know that it wasn't just one group. There were at least 2 terrorist groups carrying out these horrific attacks on the Concert Hall, National Stadium, 2 restaurants and the streets. 

I hope everybody who reads this can think of what the people of Paris must be going through today. Not just the victims' families, but just the general public and witnesses of the attacks. My thoughts are with Paris, the City Of Lights, My Favourite City.